When I met your husband, he was broken…we both were.  At the time, we were not aware of the truly dark place we were in.  After a while, that brokenness rose to the surface.  He had an expectation for his life.  He imagined that he would be married to you, the mother of his children, for the rest of his life.  If that had been the case, I would not be writing this letter.  It was very hard for him to come back from the hurt that you both endured throughout your marriage.