When I made the decision to leave our marriage, it was a decision that we had both come to mutually.   It made no sense for me to stay in a town where I knew no one and would not be able to find a career that would financially support myself and my children.   So, the only logical solution was for me to move home to Georgia. I dreaded that thought nearly as much as John did, but we had no choice. We needed to cut things off before they got worse.  Little did we know that they could get worse…and they were about to.